I don't think this person meant it literally...when threatened with the idea of seeing your kids part time and/or having to share your time with the kids with some other idiot that person will eventually hook up with, having to loose so much control over their influence when they're not with you...the likelyhood of difficulties become insurmountable to just staying and eating shit, you stay.

You guys/girls who face infidelity problems with no kids...I really don't know what's to ponder sometimes.

I'm stuck. Two kids. He went to Disneyland with the bitch and we've never taken my kids there so won't be able to go there. He banged her in my beloved vintage trailer - can't go anywhere in that (selling it). Banged her at the in laws house where we sleep and spend half our time. When we throw parties and I cook outside, I stand 12 feet away from where he tied her up and throat fucked her. Banged her in our other house we use to stay at, where I recovered from cancer while I thought we were on the road to reconciliation. It's been two years and sometimes, like now, I get fucking mad.

If you don't have kids, get the fuck out. Living with this bullshit is a cancer and it eats you.