3. Were you ostracized by your peers as well as your parents/family?

Were you ostracized by your peers as well as your parents/family?

Same here except for a few small differences, but in general it was the same for me all thru middle school. The only reason it didn't really happen in high school was because I went to a high school in a different city that was totally different than my middle school, town, and ppl from that town.

I was actually IN TROUBLE with my Nmother when I got suspended 2 weeks into middle school for defending myself against one of these scumbag kids. She was even making it all about herself, telling me that "she was getting cold looks from the school office workers" and talking about how I might have to "switch schools" because "she didn't feel welcome there anymore". Like, thanks a lot mom for seeing the reasoning behind what I did. She would threaten to send me to military school n other similar places even tho I simply defended myself.

I'm not even someone who likes getting into fights or anything but, like you said, parents did nothing, teachers did nothing, NOBODY DID JACK SHIT about this annoying fool so I had to, and I was in trouble at school and at home for it.

I remember making sure not to fight or so much as defend myself ever again during school due to my Nmoms threats.

School from Kindergarten thru Senior year was 90% hell for me and I totally get that feeling of no1 being there. It's horrible and still affects me to this day at 28 years old.

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