You weren’t friend zoned, you’re probably just a creep.

I don’t have unrealistic as to how men should act, and I am one.

You treat people like people. Two friends can mature their relationship and find love. Friendships are fluid and evolving, there’s subtlety and nuance to them.

If one person says “I want to be friends,” that’s a definitive. That’s a no room for wiggles. Either take it, or don’t. Sure, somewhere down the line that may or may not possibly change. But for now, that relationship has been stated in certainty. If you’re biting your tongue and chomping at the bit for that to change until the end of time, that’s not being a friend. It’s transactional and selfish.

You’re saying you’d rather be a selfish orbiter than a selfless friend? That’s shit personality, and it’s transparent as fuck.

There’s no friend zone. You’re either friends or you’re not. End of.

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