We've got a really low effort parody sub out there (with a SUPER clever name): /r/TERFisafetish

I can totally understand where you're coming from. I don't think that most trans women want to talk over cis women, but I can see why you would think that. I agree that cis and trans women should have their own sort of categories, and i think that they do.

The adjective 'trans' is what kind of separates trans women from cis women. I think that we should be able to use women as a way to describe both trans and cis women, and if you want to separate that's what the adjectives are for.

Just as tall women are different than short women, and muscular women are different than non-muscular women. But we're all still women, trans and cis are just adjectives to describe a specific type of woman, just like tall, short, muscular, soft, submissive, or dominant.

I think that we should have separate spaces for trans and cis women, but I also think we should have spaces where we can all exist together and share experiences and ideas or whatever with each other.

I hope what I said makes sense, I don't mean to offend or upset or anything and I'm just merely voicing my opinion. But again, i totally understand where you're coming from and I don't want to invalidate your experiences or your opinions.

Though I want to say, that I am glad that we are able to have a civil discussion about this. It's refreshing honestly.

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