Yep. I have thoughts.
Don't label yourself yet, or at least don't settle on one. You might be trans, queer, nonbinary, whatever. You might explore it for a while and change your understanding or choose not to use a label
I think you should find a positive therapist who has dealt with gender identity issues to talk to.
And honestly it would be really easy to incorporate some men's clothing items into your wardrobe to try it and see how you feel in them if you aren't already. It is, in my opinion, easier for people assigned female at birth to casually wear men's shirts or jeans or something than it is for people assigned male at birth to start wearing women's clothes. I'm just saying it's more noticeable when someone AMAB starts wearing more feminine items. So take advantage of that and explore your space a little.
I also recommend seeing if there's is a support group in the area. It might be nice to meet with other people in the community without having to go to a gay or lesbian bar. Not that there's anything wring with going to those bars. Some are very specific to the crowd they cater to and the trans community is a really small subset. But also it's nice to have an option besides the bars. Believe it or not some churches have support groups. Obviously the internet is I've way to find them. Shaving with an experienced therapist may be another.
Check out this YouTube channel. They are a therapist who puts out good information.
I might have more to say. If you have any further questions feel free to ask