You chided her for expressing an extremely commonplace opinion and responded with 'not only are men good at communication in areas where women indisputably always without fail in my experience will absolutely be terrible at, men are also good in the one area that I consider women to be good at!'
Communication does go both ways, but your comment reeks of that kind of male superiority complex over women when it comes to the tech industry/STEM/engineering/whatever the fuck you're blathering on about. It is so goddamn condescending. I simply don't believe you, as in my experience the opposite is true. I think you're wrong and you come off as a pompous ass.