What are some red flags with someone you’re dating?

Oh boy do i have an answer for you. I was very naive so I experienced all of these quirks first hand. If they are very clingy and want you to satisfy their attention needs all the time, thats a big red flag. If they are casually talking about mental issues and then proceed to brush it off, thats a BIG red flag (sit down and talk to your partner about your problems, don’t underestimate issues) they don’t want to or don’t have a life outside the relationship; bonus if they try to isolate you from your friends. But i think the most important red flag is that if you’re in a relationship with them, and it doesn’t feel right (you’re going to have self doubt that you might not be enough for them or if you deserve them; thats fine imo ) or you dont feel thankful or grateful for them being there

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