I find it hilarious that you think we're faking. I'm sure some guys are, but I'd guess all of the ones comfortable in their own skin who tell you they can't are not.

I didn't actually realize the hemsworths were super hot. I'd have assumed Chris was only moderately hot to women in a "a bit too muscular" kind of way. I guess that explains why all of the hemsworths have jobs. Is that why all the Baldwins had jobs back in the day?

The 9 times in 10 the only way I can tell if a guy is hot is in the reflection of female attention. I litterally have to run through a checklist of traits I know women supposedly find attractive, but like Ryan Gosling is supposedly the most beautiful man alive, but he's lacking some of those traits. There is clearly a je ne sais quoi I can't parse that decides things. Also, women are much like men not some monolithic block where only one type is ideal, so it may be that.

Mostly, what I take from this is I am pretty much a Kinsey 0 which is unfortunate because in the circles I run in, being at least a one would be...fun.