What are things that you consider as red flags but other people do not?

being too pushy about getting me to do something I’ve said no to

I had a gf and I was making breakfast for us. "Would you like to try these mushrooms? They are Japanese I think, and they are quite delicious. They taste a lot like seafood."

She said no. But I either didn't hear her or I did hear her but forgot.

I asked again if she wanted to try the mushrooms. Again she said no. I started talking about how I like to sautee them in just a little butter and salt. They go great with eggs.

She kinda flipped out about this. She was thinking I was trying to push them on her, or I was trying to control her to get her to eat the mushrooms.

Honestly I didn't give a fuck if she ate them or not, I was just making conversation.

They were good though, and I guess I was giving her every opportunity to change her mind.

But I really didn't care one way or another if she ate them. I just wanted her happy... those mushrooms make me happy when I eat them... so...

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