What are your hugest turn offs?

  1. Close mindedness. I cant do that. If you cant see the shit I, we, or other people have to work against then you cant fly with me. No judgment to folks that aren't that woke but I cant be a mentor to someone right now, so either you have to be woke with me or asleep without me.
  2. …successfulness. Hear me out: i'm really young, like I need a fake ID to go out and party. I have no idea what the fuck i'm doing all day long. I stay up late terrified because the clock is ticking and I dont know what to do. I love seeing other girls succeed, and the last thing I would ever want to do is drag someone I love down because I dont have my shit together.
  3. Pretentiousness. I live in sf so thats pretty much everywhere. No, I really dont care about how fucking fresh to death you are because you knew Arctic Monkeys before they were cool! I dont give a fuck if you wear fair-trade cruelty free vegan makeup damn the fuck!! Like if we're cool I know about how amazing you are, dont make yourself some self important dickweed over basic shit!!
  4. Too much baggage man. I grew up in an abusive household, have ptsd, major depression, anxiety and body dysmorphia. I'm not saying I have to be the most mentally ill person ever, but if youre calling me on the daily about your trauma while i'm trying to cope with mine? Nah lets be friends and set some boundries.
  5. No scat, piss, or age play the fuck what
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