i think it had the right idea, but radical/immature people have flooded it and ruined it. nowadays they advocate being bratty and treating ALL men like crap, no matter if they're high quality partners. one woman was posting about how this guy took care of her when she was sick, introduced her to his family etc. and she was cheered on for telling him to fuck off because he wanted to propose to her 6 months later than she wanted. instead of something reasonable like you know, talking to him and telling him why it's important to her to be engaged sooner.

men have zero incentive to be quality partners if they get treated like they're shitty no matter what they do.