What can an ugly man do to be more attractive outside of grooming or getting plastic surgery?

Listen, as someone who considers themself an uggo, you've pointed out two flaws already.

  1. You've established that there are things you could do, reasonable things, like grooming, but imply you don't want to do them.
  2. Grooming is important because it's not only about how others see you the first time, it's also how you see yourself. I suffer from a lot of depression so my grooming has gone to shit, but I'm also not out looking for dates.

I'm not talking pomade and rejuvenating lotions on your junk, I'm talking about hair combed, decent outfit with no wrinkles, deodorant. That's really the bare minimum you have to do to look "decent".

But the big thing is that you ruled it out. That says a lot. It really projects outward, and if you're not in a headspace to focus on grooming, that's fine, but you're probably not in a headspace to focus on relationships either.

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