What do you consider cheating?

I know I'm in the minority, but I don't consider that cheating. It looks like a conversation I might have with a couple of guy friends (they girlfriends/wives) who call their female friends "boo" and would definitely make "spam me nudes" jokes without things actually going there.

However, if it bothered my husband, I'd stop, no questions asked.

Consider that maybe he really doesn't know that he's been doing anything that would hurt you. Not everyone would have a problem with this conversation, and if he doesn't actually want this girl sexually, perhaps it's not crossed his mind as something which could be perceived as threatening. Clearly he doesn't actually think this was wrong (he's entitled to that belief even if you don't agree), but he deleted her from Skype because your feelings are most important and he's willing to concede to you for your comfort.

People have different boundaries and it's something you need to talk about rather than blow up/break up because you are almost always going to run into differences in what's acceptable to you vs. your partner.

/r/LongDistance Thread