What a creep ffs.

My first date with my now wife was at a swanky Ball in London. It was a work thing. Black tie and gowns sort of event. I'd bought the tickets months earlier when I was with my ex, but it ended. I called a friend and asked her if any of her friends were single and wanted an all expenses paid night in London at the Ball. She called back a few days later and told me that (wife) remembered me from a party and was interested. I said, "Great, give me her number and I'll sort everything." I called (wife) and made arrangements. Neither of us lived in London and I had a hotel room booked from when I was with the ex. I offered to pay for her to have a room in the same hotel. It all worked out and we had an absolutely amazing night. We clicked and were still dancing at 3am when it was time to return to the hotel. Having paid for the tickets, the meal, her drinks all night and her hotel room, I said goodnight at her door and went to my hotel room. Amazing night with no expectation. She texted me the next morning thanking me for a wonderful night and asking if we could have another soon. It would never have occurred to me for a moment that she should “owe” me sex based on my expenditure. We’ve been together 16 years and married 12.

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