Interesting what you have said. I met my girlfriend whilst she was on a work holiday visa in my county, we moved in together after 6 months to see if we were compatible. we have been together over a year now and she has just moved back to her own country. I am in the process of obtaining a visa to live with her for 2 years. I have learned its all about compromise. I'm in my late 20's and the way i see it is, Im willing give 2 years of my life in a foreign country, which will help me grow and learn about her culture more. We aim to get married so we can make a life together and will give us opportunities in both our countries. We can live in my country for 30 years and retire in her country for the last 30 years!