These comments are grand. From the female perspective, many men might be surprised to know she’s also getting her rocks off (most likely without you), during those weeks/months of healing. 1) orgasms help with the healing process 2) what else are you supposed to do while you are up all night feeding the baby and/or stressing and waiting for the baby to wake up? I flat out told my husband that I’d be getting off every night. And whether he wanted to be a part of that or not was his decision. For the first bit, he felt more comfortable giving me my “space”, and me giving him his. But I made it no secret that he was not the only one with needs…