Ya IDK man. It's been awhile since I've had any prospects that were interested at all. Ever since my first middle school encounter failed it's been all downhill from there. Of you would like to know... It is that me, as a new kid in school, who had been bullied at my old school, was just beginning to feel accepted and have a good friend group. All I wanted to do was finish school and get my own place before even thinking about dating. I had worked all summer at minimum wage doing the maximum number of hour allowed for a 14-15 year old. I had almost $10 000 saved up. So when I thought I felt like I was making friends in a new school I was basically happy for the first time in my life.
Then a group of girls comes in to bully me into a relationship with the most attractive girl in school. This made me elated. However, within a week she jumped into bed with some other dude. She apologized, but it was humiliating. And though I forgave her in my heart, the rest of the school became a rumor mill and decided that since I didn't fuck the easy girl, then I must be gay.
Ever since then my dating experience has been greatly varied. I've been on a few dinner dates that were really fun, though I feel like the young women were just laughing along "as friends," they showed no interest in even being "just friends."
I tried for years (after finally graduating and getting my own place) to get more dates and it really seems that being sexually active is a prerequisite for 90% of young women out there.
Ask 100 girls to dinner, 1 or 2 take up the offer. Ask 100 to crawl into bed, half will show interest and then you get varying degrees of sluttiness probably 10-15 will "hang out" no questions asked.
So don't f'-ing lecture me on what is a good man and how would a good man treat a "lady"
Consider yourself lucky if your daughter even tries to hold the illusion of purity. Or not. You didn't explicitly say anything about whether or not the behavior itself is bad. Just that, "she can make her own decisions." Well that's fine, I guess. You seem to assume she is above making mistakes, no?
All the stupid bullshit in your first big paragraph about hating women is literally the most basic feminist talking points... You fell for it bro. I'm out here trying to be the best I can be and no, I do not believe anybody owes me anything for the express purpose of having a vagina! Are you serious? Do you even understand how ridiculuou that accusation sounds? If a woman rejects me it's obviously not the best feeling in the world, but I deal with it.
Probably the most negative thing about me is the guilt and shame I carry for mistakenly thinking that doing well in school and not dating until I had my own place were "super important." Sorry for not wanting to introduce anybody to my alcoholic parents, but hey, it really seems like having past dating experience is a definite prerequisite to do any kind of dating these days. Or if I had a fancy gay boy job where I worked with a lot of women and met a lot of people maybe I would do better, but no, it's a blue collar job where I have to earn my wage and as far as I know a woman hasn't ever done the job (as a career.) Not that that's supposed to make me more manly or more dateable, no not at all... It makes it harder for me to meet women and when I do they have more reasons to be TOO QUICK TO JUDGE because they live in their own little bubble where Hillary would have been just a dandy president.
So yeah, I'm a little offended that you assume I have any hatred for people I don't know... And as far as women being "vessels for sexual release" it's like bro, don't lie. There's more to it than that obviously I'm not reducing it to that unless I feel like it's an attention getter. Is that unholy, to want some attention from the opposite sex? I suppose you're too high and mighty to imagine what your life would have been like before feminism crippled women's hindbrains into maximum hypergamy...