What does it mean when a guy says he wants something casual but then acts the opposite?

I have a friend who went thru this. I am a guy and I can tell you what’s weird. Firstly, I am happy for you that you want to date and have a real relationship. However, here is how I see it is that guy is an ass and I will explain but I think you need to end it and for a good reason. Guys who tell girls they don’t have money or time are always misleading girls to take an advantage to just ride the train with you until he gets a better stop (aka replaces you).

So about the attitude; he’s not being wired he is mad you didn’t tell him, he definitely has feelings for you now but he can’t just keep you forever I am sure someday you guys will either end up together or go your separate ways. You finding someone shouldn’t make him mad but should be a wake up call for him to either confront his feelings for you and actually drive the train rather than hitching a ride orrrrr move on with your life.

In the end it’s really your call. Someone who has no time or money for you but for sex is not really there for you emotionally so how can you invest in such relationship. Few men think it’s okay to have a girlfriend while having 2 or 3 side chicks. Drop that extra baggage if it’s weighing you down.

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