Honestly "American Pie" is about as close as it gets, like pushing your dick into warm apple pie, it's not hot or cold but just right, moist apple pie. Anal is about the same just more pressure and heat mostly friction.

Mostly how the woman reacts which drives the mood, the more they squirm and enjoy it the more we as men want to keep the pleasure flowing. A squirming/moaning woman is 100% better than a dead fish in the bedroom. Like fucking a hole in a tree or a wailing banshee wanting more. Situation applies of course but men need some sort of action to know you like it , so they will get the mood flowing. Nails onto our back, tightening your legs around our waist, vigorous kissing...etc. anything is always better than nothing.