What does the word "submission" really mean?

"It is offensive to me" that's great! It means you're a feminine woman.

High(er)-T changes your psyche on a fundamental level. You're more likely to sexually objectify people and be comfortable with that. A FtM transsexual said in An American Life that when he started T-treatment he'd start to want to have sex with people he walked passed by and that made him disgusted at himself. Many anti-feminist theorists are bisexual lesbians who are high T and usually the man in their relationship e.g. Camille Paglia. Famous MRA blogger Girlwriteswhat is High-T - the digit ratio is a surefire sign but you can usually tell without that based on their personal style, behavior, and temperament. Feminine woman prefer to subscribe to a theory of a matching model of relationships ("soul-mates") instead of a vertical hierarchy where people are assigned a number and interchangeable with those with an identical value. Some of the female posters who are most sympathetic to RedPill like /u/cats_or_get_out were lesbians once.

Really, I still have a hard time processing your story, but I would still blame the de-institutionalized nature of RedPill theory, for which political correctness is responsible, for your travails. The God Emperor (no really, I'm not exaggerating with this title) of RedPill theory, who originated the concept, said that dread isn't universally necessary.

There are two ways to guarantee a healthy relationship. By healthy, I mean the girl is in love with you and there is no threat of her leaving; you have all the leverage you need to assure yourself peace of mind and a steady sexual outlet.

If you are extremely lucky enough to cross paths with your soulmate this is the easiest way to live the kind of romantic bliss that Hollywood movies exalt. A soulmate connection is the Golden Ticket to happiness and a dreamlike existence. But it is rare. Don’t live as if it will happen to you. I estimate 1% of all men and 2% of all women meet their soul-mates.

My advice to him (not sure how to reach him), as someone with a black-belt in Game theory, is that he gets down on his knees and tearily beg for your forgiveness, let you punch/slap him if you want for cathartic release, and promise to never visit RedPill subreddits ever again (how has your recent sex life been like? I'm guessing not that great? I've read your posts and I don't see any updates on your marriage. You can PM me if you want). This may sound counter-intuitive from a "RP perspective" but a woman needs (ostensible) sincerity (but you know that already), and he needs to give that to you, whatever it takes.

Most of the commenters here are entry-level rubes; if they're love-doctors, they're equivalent to medieval doctors that preferred blood-letting above all else. (Like that guy (girl?) who's asking you why you settled down at 26; I've seen supermodels get married at 22 to fashion photographers, people marry for love; they breathlessly apply the "hypergamous woman who sleeps with men of higher SMV from 14-28 and then locks down a loser for his money" to everyone they meet, like the dumb pretty boy doctor House who suggests that every patient has lupus.)

People who are asking you to be understanding don't know what they're talking about. It's constitutionally impossible to be understanding of someone who's gas-lighting you in such a crude manner. It's like a slut who overtly fakes pain during sex to signal inexperience, gets caught, and asks how she can make amends.

I don't know how to salvage your relationship; he's fundamentally lost your trust and I have no idea how it can be restored. Game doesn't work when the other party knows about it, indeed it can backfire and it has backfired spectacularly here, unless it's flawlessly executed, where the change occurs naturally, organically, or at least the appearance thereof; even then when the other party has known the pre-Game you, it's a huge impediment.

This is the saddest story I've ever read on Reddit. Other tales have been more superficially harrowing, but this has a special Lovecraftian pathos, in a "First Crusade-era pilgrims who get duped by unscrupulous travel salesmen and get sold into sexual slavery in the Caliphate" sort of way.

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