I don’t need to get to know any dick tho, I’m more of the “heterosexual male” type.

If you want a relationship, sex will actually strengthen the pairbond in the immediate... When you have sex is less important than whether or not you’d be interested if there was no sex!

Sex can often turn into a sunken cost fallacy issue for some people on top of ALWAYS (to some extent) generating a biochemical attachment to someone you otherwise could have been “meh” or even “neh” about had you not porked them before you got to know them.

People who tend to get down to fucking fast as a pattern tend to be about the sex or at least place higher than average value on it. But it’s not so much about the speed of the progression being a problem as much as pretending there is more than just sex there when there isn’t really (or even when there literally is not). Besides this concept I think it’s almost all subjective ethics imposed by puritanical mindsets and are not at all empirical.

People who are sex-centered may be more apt to lie about there being more about sex to deny they’re horndogs forcing a “round peg into a square hold” so they can keep smashing their O button... And I think that is more the problem with the internet dating patterns of some rather than the actual act of fast sex itself, “alcohol isn’t a problem for all of us, but it is for alcoholics”.