What was the final moment when you knew you're in the wrong relationship? What was that 'little moment' that told you it'll never work out?

I really never pictured children in my future but I felt pressured by my ex’s family to have kids if we ever became that serious. One day when it felt right I wanted to get to the point and tell him I didn’t want kids for a variety of reasons, with one of my fears seeing how my body would change after birth and feeling undesirable, and another being kept from advancing my future career.

We ended up talking about the hypothetical scenario that if I EVER decided to have biological kids, there’s no way in hell I’d have more than 2 and they’d have to be born like at least 5 years apart for reasons above. He immediately sighed and was like ‘sorry, that won’t work, I want my kids to be born a year apart so they can grow up together’. I was pissed because not only did I literally compromise my hypothetical career and vagina, but that he seemed to think I was some 18th century house wife who has babies back to back???? I was revolted. Glad our relationship crashed and burned because he made it clear he’s the type to use a girl up and throw them away when they aren’t a manic pixie dream girl for .5 seconds.

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