so this is it, i have only kept the important bits.

There this girl I like, I thought she likes me due to all the flirting, we wold touch each other all the time, we even kissed when drunk once. She loves to touch me, like if if go quiet she will pull my whole arm towards her body and hold it there. So I asked her out, she rejected me saying she liked someone else and i was her best friend. Anyway I stopped contact, and was just boring and blunt with her.

She once said that if I was a teacher that all female students would fancy me. Clearly this is a sign of attraction

She has been messaging me a lot, If I dont reply she will call me an ignorer. (not even a real word but lol). Any she wants to go out after our last exam. I didnt even have to ask. But main point here is I have so many texts from her. I was at a wedding, and she had a drink, she called me 8 times . For 3 weeks she has made an effort, texts everyday. One night she was drunk and messaged me to meet her, she wished I went out clubbing with her more. (maybe a reference to the kiss)

So I got into a friend with benefits with a older student who is 5 years older. This girl I like was quick to say that I dont like her. I played along and acted confused, she wanted me to dump this 26 year old right now. She text me the next day asking If I had dumped this 26 year old. She even asked If I slept with her. She also asked why I still wear the bracelet which the older girl gave me.

The other day while I was in an exam with her. I was walking with another girl, I saw her looking at me. and looking away when I made eye contact. In the exam room, she went in first, I was near her and sat next to my guy friend, he told me that she looked at me all the way until I sat down, and he caught her eye. Later that day she asked wanted to call me, I just said later. I didnt call her, and at midnight she wrote "thanks for the call". I gave her a brief call, just talked about the exam and I cut the phone. She sent a text later saying good night.

Anyway last night she found out the other guy she likes, liked her flatmate, she called me and told me all this. I just stayed on the phone for a while, and just said if you have any self respect you would not see him again as he used you. Then I hung up. She still said she likes him, but wants nothing serious with him, just fun, even tho she turned down sex with him twice. She said that she isnt that interested in him but im unsure. The last day at uni, she didnt hang out with him, instead she texted me, saying that she missed me, I visited her for an hour as I had to meet my friends for a night out.

So what do you think now? How should I make the move?

The very first time we met, we went for a drink, I was seeing someone so didn't really escalate much. But at 4am she sent a text saying 'you are sick'. she told me later that she thought i was a player, I remember i was flirty, but not that much.