I don’t know if she’s from a similar belief system than me but it’s my understanding that those souls are supposed to be born to wherever else they are accepted and then later they feel a connection with their “almost mommy” and it can take on like a mentorship role, like she is their boss at work or she is their teacher at college or she mentors them in some way because motherhood takes on various roles in karmic life and “soul family”. It doesn’t mean they have to stay in the bio family. There are all kinds of people in your soul family you may never meet but if you do you have an instant connection with them and fall into natural roles and it sounds like that’s what she’s describing but she’s got some of it wonky.