What karma or lack there of did an abuser that got away with what he did to you have?

every single dude who has ever fucked me over never found anybody else. i honestly don't know whether it's because my standards were so low that no other woman wanted them (probably), but yeah, i like to comfort myself in the fact that i curse them with the foreveralone hex when i get fed up and leave.

most recent narcissistic abuser managed to find someone else, but it's already going wrong. i told her to come to me when he shows his ugly side and smears her like he smeared me. his friend group has been made aware that he's a rapist, but they keep him around because geek social fallacies, and i'm positive they'll fall off the face of the earth when he leaves school this year. my family members have blocked him on everything. even his twin brother, my SO, has washed his hands of him. i'm actually heading over to their mom's house today, where i will tactfully and thoughtfully answer any questions about what a terrible person her son turned out to be.

i have a lifelong front row seat to watch his undoing and i'm not even ashamed to say i'm liking it. after 5 years of grooming, escalating abuse, and playing not just me but my SO, all empathy is gone.

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