What kind of gifts do you give someone who is able to buy anything they need?

If you can’t imagine the perfect thoughtful gift and they haven’t given you any specific hints, don’t waste time with all the handmade/rare/local/even food — all this is more clutter. Acts of service are better. Quality time. If you must, something consumable; but simple is better. A single bottle of wine. Maybe a floral arrangement if they are entertaining. I am not wealthy but I have everything I need. I don’t need or want a handmade gift, because now I have to deal with another piece of clutter that I know someone assembled because they know I’m so difficult to shop for and now it comes loaded with emotional guilt. I don’t appreciate most art. It’s fine in other people’s homes, in public or a museum but I don’t want it in my space. Handmade jewelry is the worst. Especially when the materials are cheaply made and cause allergies. If I’m being honest: it’s most likely going to the landfill. I didn’t ask to be a steward of your urge to gift, even it it’s made with love. I especially dislike receiving travel souvenirs the most. Unless this person hates you, quality time is best.

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