I made my spouse delete ALL social media, I did as well just to show my support. If he has any he would have to delete the apps from his phone and really download them every time I see him which hopefully he wouldn't do. Reconciliation is incredibly hard and difficult we have been trying for 3 months and he has definitely made some mistakes. He's lied to me about hanging out with a childhood friend that is a woman, was not okay with it and she even texted him again to see what he's doing Saturday. I talked to his mom and made sure she was indeed just a childhood friend. He has ignored me nights he went out with his friends, so I end up calling him over and over and he kept ignoring me. He has relapsed on pain killers, and all of these have happened in the 3 months since dday.

Things he has done deleted all social media, no more cheating, lets me see his phone when ever I want. Talks to me when ever and about anything I want to except this last month he made me feel bad about feeling insecure about our relationship. He's a fucking asshole and does some dumb shit either every week or twice a month. Idk I don't have a solid answer for you, but this has been my experience thus far. It's rough, and he could probably be perfect and do better. But no one is perfect and I expect mistakes to be made.