I was in love with four women in 2004 and moved cross country in part to try and figure out which I wanted to be with. I'm married to one of them now and still very much in love with the other three but only speak to them on occasion. My identity in 2004 was very much wrapped up in my job...and after moving cross country to get (the other part) get a law degree I'm still trying to get back into my former job on Capitol Hill. I owe about a half million dollars and have about a half million dollars saved.

Biggest differences - I have a business now as a side gig. I have four children. I have two law degrees and worked on a Mars mission for NASA. But other than that not much has changed.