What lie do you repeatedly tell yourself?

my Ex is open to it.

Yea, because she wants to ruin your marriage.

I don't love my Ex-Wife more than my new wife.

The reason is because relationships are work, and looking back at the "good times" is easy, versus the current relationship, where you're struggling.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangulation_(psychology)

Triangulation is a manipulation tactic where one person will not communicate directly with another person, instead using a third person to relay communication to the second, thus forming a triangle. It also refers to a form of splitting in which one person manipulates a relationship between two parties by controlling communication between them.

Triangulation may manifest itself as a manipulative device to engineer rivalry between two people, known as divide and conquer or playing one (person) against another.

You're the person with something to lose, not her, so she's playing you.

If you let her...

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