After an estranged from reached out and tried to reconcile. She did some really horrible things that almost cost me my job and relationship, but I've never been one to hold a grudge (even when I probably should have) and it had been four and a half years. I told her I was willing to believe we'd both grown up and give another chance.

Well...it turns out my life had settled down but hers hadn't. She was still one of those people who are entrenched in all the drama all the time and only reached out when she needed something. Nothing happened between us again or anything, but it was just so petty and exhausting and I was just done with all of that.