What Do You Think Is The Main Reason Why Incels Can't Get Women?

Different reasons for different people.

Incels are disproportionally more likely to have a mental disability compared to the general population, and these disabilities affect a man's ability to form connections with others which include romantic relationship as well. Examples of such disabilities include autism and extreme social anxiety. Autism is a particularly impactful disability for a man to have, and it oftentimes causes dating to be much harder for men affected by it.

Personality profile can be a factor. Incels are more likely to be introverted, disagreeable, and neurotic compared to the general population. They may also have higher levels of anxiety, and lower levels of risk-taking and social skills as well. All of these factors can negatively impact a man's ability to find romantic/sexual partners.

Where do looks fall into the picture? The better looking a man is, the more he is able to get away with questionable social skills and a lackluster personality (at least in short term mating/relationships). On the other hand, average and especially below average looking men need to make up for their lack of looks somehow. So incels are simply men who arne't good looking enough to make up for their personality/character/disability flaws.

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