easier to just post my load order. Some mods I've manually merged into BSAs, for performance and organisational reasons. Load order was manually set. It's not 100% stable but close enough, am on save number ~1000+ on my playthrough
Update.esm Dawnguard.esm HearthFires.esm Dragonborn.esm HighResTexturePack01.esp HighResTexturePack02.esp HighResTexturePack03.esp Unofficial Skyrim Legendary Edition Patch.esp Textures_MergedBSAedMods_01.esp Skyrim Project Optimization - No Homes - Full Version.esm SkyUI.esp
AOS.esp Immersive Sounds - Compendium.esp
SMIM-Medium+RuinsClutterBSA.esp Insignificant Object Remover.esp RemoveSmoke.esp Fix that damned bridge (Winterhold) Update.esp Book Covers Skyrim.esp
You Hunger.esp HHoS Ancient Shrine.esp HHoS Subterranean Hot Spring.esp Hidden Hideouts of Skyrim - Merged.esp Hidden Hideouts of Skyrim City Edition - Merged.esp HoldBorderBanners.esp Point The Way.esp
RuffledFeatherSelectedMerged+WATER.esp Remove Interior Fog V2 - Full Version.esp
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VendorSaleDelay-Gone.esp ProjectileTrails - Never.esp Footprints.esp Auto Unequip Ammo.esp Chesko_WearableLantern.esp Traps Make Noise.esp AnimalBloodPotionsVanilla.esp
DetailedMineMarkers.esp Map Markers Complete DLC.esp Map Markers Solstheim.esp iHUD.esp AHZmoreHUD.esp AMatterOfTime.esp
iNeed.esp Hypothermia.esp RHSP_Widget.esp #Hypothermia Plus
AchieveThat.esp Thieves Guild Requirements.esp
TimingIsEverything.esp Extended Encounters.esp
BetterQuestObjectives.esp BetterQuestObjectives-DBForevertoMisc.esp
Cutting Room Floor.esp BetterQuestObjectives-CRFPatch.esp Immersive Patrols II.esp Civil War Overhaul.esp
Requiem.esp Requiem - Legendary Bugsmasher Edition.esp Requiem - Audio Overhaul for Skyrim.esp ISC Requiem Patch.esp Requiem - Restored Saving Messages Requiem - Vanilla Shrines.esp
Requiem - Even Better Quest Objectives.esp Requiem - Hearthfire.esp Requiem - Cutting Room Floor.esp Requiem - Civil War Overhaul Patch.esp Requiem - Timing is Everything.esp Requiem - Immersive Patrols - CWO.esp
Paarthurnax_Bypass.esp Better Vampires.esp #after requiem. recommended that you do not enable feeding off the dead or extracting blood potions, Requiem sort of handles this already Requiem - Better Vampires Patch.esp
dD - Realistic Ragdoll Force - Realistic.esp FNIS.esp
AnonymousPeople.esp CFTO.esp #Fast Travel Overhaul #just in case Realistic Boat Bobbing.esp #after CFTO Requiem for the Indifferent.esp