At what moment did you realize “The One” wasn’t who you thought he/she was?

Together for three years. Her one and only prior relationship was a marriage with a guy who traveled for work and was setting up illegitimate kids all over the country so she wanted slow. I asked her to move in with me so she could sell her condo that was losing value. I loved her and would have asked her too marry me if not for her history.

She lied to me about having to get up early to help her mom so i wouldn't come over and invited one of her coworkers back to her condo that Friday and fucked him.

She was so sorry, she was afraid, she didn't know why she did it, she does want to move in, etc. I knew I'd never trust her again.

To add insult to injury, her daughter texted me, "I'm sorry my mom did to you what my dad did to my mom." That was some 8 years ago and i still remember it.

I've had one real ish relationship since then and she was a liar and a cheat too but i figured it out quick because of my now trust issues. So i got that going for me!

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