I understand but it has been this way from the beginning.. He has no problem seeing his friends or doing his hobbies.. I'd never push my way into his life in that way cause everyone needs time for hobbies of course.. But when that person puts you aside to do other stuff pretty much all week I guess you start to feel like you're not really a priority or that you both want the same things? If that makes any sense. I mean I could be wrong about all of this.. About how I feel.. I'd like to correct it if so.. Its nice to see other people's look on these type of things! I'm just at that stage where I want to get a house and be together and start a family.. He's more wait for another four or five years type of guy.. We're 28..so it can get frustrating at times when it doesn't feel like there's compromise but he says we do in fact want the same things.. So like I said I could be wrong about how I feel about this.. Maybe I should start being more independent myself.