Aside from all their trials and tribunes of life, id probably say waking up from a nap and hearing my brother screaming upstairs that I need to come down stairs now because my dad was on the ground, unresponsive and not breathing. I woke up to this. I was prepared at all. He was fine. Happened completely out of the blue.. anyway the EMT’s came to find me beating on his chest not knowing what I was doing just wanted desperately to bring him back. We went the the hospital and he didn’t make it. Massive heart attack 97% blockage in his aorta... probably the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in my adult life, and have had to deal with every since.