You creeped back years to figure this out, well you forgot/missed/ignored numerous points. 1) it’s a nonprofit that I volunteer for and sometimes get paid for. It’s a feminist dominated place, about 60% women, that is full of people like you. 2) sexually harassed and assaulted 3) I have hard evidence that this happened and have told other people that aren’t high up and they mostly ignore it because “women see it more”. 4) yes, I said I would wait until she had gotten very high up to come out because if she gets into a higher position she is more likely to do this and hurt people. It’s not revenge and I have never called it that, you did. 5) I’m mostly scared of losing all of the progress I’ve made within this group, helping those that need it. 6) my actual job has changed 3 times in two years, what is your point? This job/volunteer activity has been the same for 2-3 years. 7) anytime I have said about “fake victim hood” is when the woman uses it to hide her acts of abuse. Which is where you see that. 8) I feel like you wouldn’t be victim blaming if I were a female.