First off I'm english is my second language so I'm sorry for the grammar/syntax errors. One of my best friends and former roomate came out after we had lived together. He thought I would freakout when I found out but I really couldn't care less when he told me, I just wanted to punch him (figuratively not literally) because I was one of the last in our group to find out when I was always super supportive of him. He was always the popular guy and I was always the shy/quiet one in any of my bunch on friends. Anyways, one day I go visit him in his new city, that is about an hour away from mine and we go out. He wants to go to a gay bar and I really dont mind as I'm comfortable with who I am and they usually have better music than the other bars around. I crash at his place since we get drunk and I'm not going to take my car. So somewhere in between the 10 years we have know each other & the fact that I've had multiple girlfriends he seems too drunk to remember that I am straight. At this point he is giving hints and I don't want to hurt his feelings as he is very sensitive, especially when drunk. When we get back to his place I go to bed in the guest room and he comes in to talk. I had to tell him to go to his room because I knew he was about to jump in bed. He went to his room after I made it super clear that it would not happen. The next morning was like he never tried anything and I never told anyone as I know it would hurt his feelings and he would be super embarassed. Since then it was never really the same. He doesn't call and always finds excuses to hang up if I call. My gf asks why he doesn't call or come over any moreand I just can't bring myself to tell her or anyone else.