What is the most important life lesson you've learnt the past year?

Honestly this kinda reminds me of my friend... She was obsessed over the cool ppl and desired to join them so much until I was rlly pissed... Then she came back to me only after she was left out by them, said she realised they were toxic... By then I had made other genuine friends but I still accepted her back which caused me to drift apart from my new friends...

Im still frnds w her to this day but honestly, idk if I made the right choice... I felt like she truly preferred the cool ppl (as seen from her obsession) but just couldn't get close to them, sometimes I wonder if she chose me due to her lack of options then... Felt different about her ever since all that

But she has improved from then and became a loyal frnd now. I just question my choice sometimes, when I think about all the other possible friendships I could have formed

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