Answer for body question: The answer is near the end, but the context makes it better, IMO. There was a friend of a friend who threw a party on the weekend before New Years. I didn't talk to her at all really. Partly cause I dated one of her friend's, who cheated on me with my best friend. We were all cool, but still was a little awkward. Party host was eyeing me, so I did what I do, I ignored her thoroughly but kept glancing at her. Anytime she'd try to talk to me I'd be short, then just walk away and play beer pong or something. I'm also naturally a very quiet guy, so most folks just go, "That's just how he is, he never talks". Someone asks me why I'm so quiet and she fires back, "He talks with his eyes." I give her a wink, and walk back inside.

Party ends, we leave. We go back for a New Year's party the next weekend. Repeat.

Here's the thing, I like games. I only really go for girls who will play back and not make me look like I'm being an asshole. And she was playing. Flirtin with guys and eye me every so often and that kind of stuff. It's harmless fun to me, not meant to be malicious. Who will cave first? kinda thing. I knew what I was doing ... she was the kind of girl that DID NOT like being ignored by guys, so I just had to fuck with her and ignore her.

New Year's party she tries to lay it on thick. Sit in my lap and shit. I keep doin what I do. She starts getting visibly frustrated. About 12:30AM she just grabs me by my shirt, full fisted, and drags me down the hall and throws me in her room, "Im gonna get you to talk to me one way or another." Did not expect that, but I liked her approach. Mostly cause it meant I won. Fun girl.