what is the mystery about my date?

I must end the story, I made it present tense and I am lost because this guy made us break up... and come to the beer festival... my date is very sensitive and emotionally hurt...

we broke up and he was saying please I like you a lot but I need time and I dint want to kiss you in public ( because we were having these issues I assume).. but I broke up anyway because didn't understand what was going on... he was going to his therapy. he said currently he can not give me a relationship but it will come some day , but he wants me to have etc.. everything contradictory..

I went to a friend (I made a joke once yes I go with my friend, he was in love w me but I didn't want anything and I even itnroduced them) and than my friend asked me to stay in his friends house. my date told me he can drive and pick me up if there are no trains (I was 200 kms away from home that s why my friend told me I can stay in his friend house)it as a very bad mistake I made but I didn't go in the end.. I took the trains and came back home...

he texts me everyday and asks me to meet etc but I was getting so stressed with all these things... I closed off a bit...I shared with him that I started to be a bit anxious.. he was like I want to see you again and than he stopped texting me. he quoted his job as well. I got worried and went to his house, and I saw him with another woman he met in the weekend when I was away (he wanted to pick me up etc...) she is married with two kids and returns to the husband,... I told him many things and he was almost crying, he even talked about me to the girl, she knew abut me amazing!

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