It's like this. You might think a guy looks great in Versace swimming trunks. I mean empirically some men can pull them off, the dude in the pic looks fuckin' hot doesn't he. But you may not think that reflects a personal style of someone who you would be romantically interested in. I think certain styles are more reflective of someone that is over concerned with social climbing among upper middle class people who are anti-intellectual. I think it can communicate a certain level of anal retentiveness and over-the-top obsession with grooming. These might be people who have equally harsh things they think of me. But what surprises me most is that while I can see someone that is "very put together" clothing and makeup-wise and think they were empirically attractive while not having any desire for them like I might feel regarding a more earthy and natural look. When I was dating I remember as shallow as I could be I still was turned off by that social standard and it wasn't driven so much by being reconstructed which I think is kind of surprising, don't you?