What not to say infront of children

My wife and I have a strict, "no conflict in front of the kids" policy, and if it does happen we always talk to the kids right away to make sure they know everything's is OK and that sometimes people have disagreements.

The thing is we become less "sensitive" the more we experience things and are taught how to calm and reason through and contextualize the emotions that come up. I am likely a "sensitive" adult because I remember countless nights lying in bed while my Mom just would go off on my Dad and nothing was ever said about it or even acknowledge it to this day. No one ever told me how to think about or handle that sort of emotion until doing real inner work later in life. Just walking on egg shells all the time.

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