What the heck? Your first comment was just controlling and odd. This one is even worse. Why would anyone do any of this? Why would you pay for a divorce, two households, tell someone that they are a thot who needs to “work long and hard to win you back?” Do you realize how unhealthy and ridiculous this sounds? You either can trust someone or you can’t. You cant control someone into being trustworthy. End the relationship, or don’t, but don’t do this crazy shit OP.
Im sorry that someone clearly hurt you, but the things you are recommending are completely unhealthy and toxic in a relationship, and you shouldn’t be projecting your own problems onto other people’s relationships.