What is one thing that happened on the show that you think everyone seems to make a bigger deal out of than it really was ?

Jess wasn't a rapist, but he did assault her. I think what majority is angry about is he didn't apologise (or at least we never saw him apologize onscreen).

Dean too, while he toxic he wasn't wrong per se because Rory was afterall cheating on him. In fact Rory mostly gaslighted him into thinking he was going crazy when he was absolutely right, she was totally into Jess but wouldn't dump Dean because she pitied her. I agree with your point, the sub demonizes teens way too much after a point because rapist/abusive are big words to throw around. And there is Logan, the adult who is excused for a lot in my opinion, compared to the other two whose big mistakes only happened when they were minors/barely adults.

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