Honestly, I hate when people try to force friends and family on me or arrange random meetings and expect me to go. My sister is notorious for this, she thinks I'm a loner, but it's completely by choice. I think I would be fine with a small group of friends and a quiet life with a bunch of hobbies which is something I haven't had the luxury of since I was a teenager. I'm also tired of people I barely know, AKA family I don't know trying to force me into college. 1, I don't fucking know you dude, and 2, are you paying for it? It's ok to be undecided for a few years. I still am. I would completely understand if we lived anywhere else than America. I hate this country.