What part of your relationship is completely different than you expected?

I thought I would always maintain an air of ~mystery~ (if you will) about my body. I wouldn’t discuss the weirder aspects of womanhood, especially regarding anything... that gets expelled lol.

Well long story short I ended up with an ICU nurse, I rarely bother to pee with the door closed anymore, we’ve consulted each other on things like color and consistency of snot, I’ve felt felt his testicle, at his request, because he thought there was a lump, and I once even had him check my junk because I was afraid I forgot a tampon in there (I didn’t). These things are totally comfortable experiences, usually done with a lot of dark jokes and laughing.

I guess I never thought I’d be quite that comfortable with someone I still expect to find me sexy lol.

/r/AskWomen Thread