What do people complain about that doesn't even exist in the first place?

The whole non gendered people, and the legit concern some people have about misgendering anyone ("dont assume my gender"). I am sure there are many places online where this seems common but I've lived in different places and i have yet to meet someone who even thinks about this. There is absolutely no threat presented to any person out there that they will get yelled at because of using a pronoun that fits someones outward appearance. And of the very few people Ive met in my life where I wasnt sure which gender they were, it was never due to purposeful action but to completely naturally given odd physical appearance. If anything, majority of people would find it bizarre if you avoid using gendered pronouns until the gender is verbally confirmed, so this is a completely nonsensical and nonexistent social expectation.

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