Well, I’m a pretty average looking guy. Not hot enough to casually sleep with hot girls. (I casually slept with one genuinely hot girl once, but we had been close friends for 15 years).

However, I’m decent looking enough where I can lock down the hot crazy girls if I commit to them and emotionally support them despite their issues. But those become super intense relationships, and I tend to catch feelings as well, so I’m not exactly on the look out for someone else while that’s going on.

And finally, I think a hot girl who didn’t have issues would likely end up with a hot guy, and wouldn’t have to settle for me.

I’m just at a really weird point of attractiveness:
1. I can hook up with mediocre to ugly girls, but I don’t really see the point of this outside of desperation 2. I can lock down hot girls with extreme issues, which is unhealthy in the long term but day-to-day basically gives me what I want. 3. I can’t casually sleep with or lock down hot girls who have anything short of extreme issues.