ok im not good so take with a grain of salt pls. this is how I play each god when I roll them in random and mostly it sort-of usually works but i only really play vs noobs. Also, develop your own playstyle! Metagaming makes you weak.

Zeus: Either balls-to-the-walls aggression with Athena or stalling to mythic with Hermes. Lord of Mediterranean.

Hades: Almost impossible to rush. No huge weaknesses but no huge strengths. Builds a 2nd TC while Charon runs around inside your base.

Poseidon: lol cavalry everywhere

Ra: Uses Pharaoh to scout. Has Ptah cheese but for has a harder time pulling it off due to lack of set animals.

Isis: People say she's the jack of all trades but people mostly use her for fast heroics and 2tc strats. Please don't play Isis, I hate playing against her. Undisputed queen of Anatolia.

Set: Wins by using his good vision to predict and counter enemy strategies. Requires more micro early game to make lots of animals to see everything on the map. Usually does Ptah nonsense.

Thor: Spends a long time in classical then boom bam rag flaming weapons what the fuck just happened

Odin: Good heroic age but no way to get there. Also if you spend a while in Classical like most Norse players like to, then you're probably better off just using Ragnarok than trying to set up lots of hill forts.

Loki: OP Hersir raids into flaming weapons to stop opponent from getting a 2nd gold. Also has really good rushes.

Kronos: That god I can't play. Likes to do 4-5 citizen rushes with timeshifted buildings.

Ouranos: Most players will just abuse his extreme mobility to win during the classical age, but a really good one will do that and get a bunch of TCs and go titan almost at the same time somehow. The king of Oasis.

Gaia: Extremely vulnerable to rushes, particularly those involving myth units. Good heroic age, but difficulty getting there.

So there's my unprofessional opinion.