At what point does it end?

Sorry just don’t like the part about how because your sister went NC, your mom is blaming her for your mom and dad’s marital problems? Sounds like your mom still can’t accept the fact that her daughter feels safer and better not being being in contact with her. (I have a feeling your mom complains to you and your dad and acts like a victim.) Just because you are able to set boundaries w your mom, doesn’t mean your sister is is able to. If you don’t think your moms a Narc, regardless of the label your sister has been NC for a long time. You guys are 4 years apart, that’s a big chunk of time where you might’ve not experienced what she has. I think it’s unfair for you to want them to reconcile. I think it’s not supportive of your sister and her choices. I think anyone not talking to their own mom needs the most love. And I don’t know if you’re really going back and forth between them. I sense your mom is in your ear and causing you to now blame your sister when she’s having a rough time.

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